I was chatting to a colleague of mine who is off to a gay wedding next week. The hosts are loaded and there is some concern that the place will be full of muscle marys all a bit past their sell by date but steroidided and botoxed to the max. They will all have that shiny face and bulging biceps look . Unfortunately, they are all financially successful as well

I have had a sleepless night thinking about this but I have come to the conclusion that it comes down to whether you are happy and I think this person is.

If you are happy with your life does it matter if you dont fit the mould. Happiness I believe in turn leads to self confidence so I suggested he wore a mohair suit imported from New York and a pair of chelsea boots handmade in Nottingham turn up looking a bit pasty and talk about the melody of music contaminating the soul and how he loves to spend time on coastal walks. This may make these botoxed bunnies have a rethink about their lives.

Miles ©